"We've structured modern life around the idea that one big relationship should be everything: the place where you get acceptance and intimacy, friendship and love, spontaneity and mischief. Everything all rolled into one. And for so many, and maybe you too, it"s just not working.Let"s be honest, relationships are complicated. We want too much, or expect too little, from our partner(s) and often WE don"t know exactly what we want, much less how to ask for it. Add in sex, and our societal taboos around discussing it, and you can get a big mess."