"What comes to mind when you think of postpartum depression?
Maybe a news story of someone hurting their kids or a new mom struggling with the transition into motherhood. The truth is, we don"t think about postpartum depression or really know much about it other than from the news or our own experiences. For instance did you know men can get a form of postpartum depression known as Paternal Depression? Well they can. Postpartum depression does not discriminate by gender or birthing versus non-birthing partner. This little talked about mood disorder can create a difficult twist in an already major transition.
Pregnancy is often described as a positive experience
We glow, grow, and nest. We meet with healthcare providers checking the safety and growth of our babies and prepare for giving birth. Understandably the majority of care during the span of a pregnancy focuses on the birthing partner, what they are going through and how to support them. Often times little attention is given to the non-birthing partner, who is also going through this transition in a different way.
Fathers can often feel overwhelmed and find this transition to be difficult to prepare for. There are many changes happening including changes in sex life, in attention received from their partners, and an increased sense of responsibility. These changes can weigh heavily on them and influence their experience. Risk factors for Paternal Depression include: having a spouse who has or is experiencing a postpartum mood disorder; not being included in pregnancy care; unhealthy lifestyle; stress; poor marital relationship; history of mental illness; and feelings regarding pregnancy i.e. planned vs. unplanned pregnancies.
Some signs of postpartum depression in non-birthing partners include:
an increase in anger directed toward the baby and/or their partner
an increase in staying out late or working late
withdrawing from the relationship
an increase in substance use
an increase in anxiety
loss of sense of humor
It is important to know that if you are struggling with this you are not alone. Some estimates say that as many as one in four men experience postpartum depression. Research has also shown that this is true of lesbian couples and more research is in process and needed with other same sex couples."
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